Part
2: The Whys and Whats.
What
can a writing group do for you? When I ask writing group members this question
I usually get some variation on three basic points.
a.
Writing is a lonely business. A writing group provides needed socialization. At
work I get time to socialize with friends and colleagues, but in the summer
when I don’t teach I might see no one but my wife and my writing group for
weeks at a time. I like my privacy but even I need some human contact.
b.
More than in most careers, writers put their innermost thoughts, fears, hopes
and loves out in front of people. We take risks and it’s scary. Sometimes it
results in rejection. This hurts. We begin to doubt our talent, our luck,
everything. Only other writers will really understand and a writing group can
provide needed emotional support.
c.
To improve their craft, writers need reader feedback. Books on writing are good
but there’s no substitute for receiving a critical evaluation of your work.
Editors and publishers don’t have time. You can pay professional editors but
that’s costly and you get one opinion. You can ask family members and friends
but that’s generally a bad idea. You’re likely to get either glowing reviews or
anger because they think you’re writing about them.
I
once shared a story with my mom that I thought was really good. She looked up
at me with tears in her eyes as she finished it. “Is this what you think of me?”
she asked. I was devastated. And confused. The story was a Twilight Zone type twist ending tale. It did have an older woman
character with gray hair and Mom, who was an older woman with gray hair, took
it to represent her.
A
writing group can be easiest and cheapest source of feedback available for
writers. This is the major reason I’m in one.
Say
you are starting to think that a writing group might be for you. What kinds of
groups are out there? Many. But, I think
they can be divided into three broad types.
a.
Support Groups: Provide emotional &
literary support for writers. Many such groups are professional and nationwide.
Romance, mystery, thriller groups etc. I’m in HWA. Many have smaller local
affiliates. You pay to be a member.
Strong at: newsletters,
markets, contests, speakers, workshops, social events, webpages, networking
opportunities.
Weaker at: One on one feedback,
the nuts and bolts of constructing a story or novel, actual practice at writing.
Dangers of: Too much talking, not
enough doing. People can sometimes feel they are accomplishing writing while
not actually putting words on the page. In extreme cases, this can actually
decrease a person’s motivation to write.
b.
Discussion Groups: General discussion about writing. Such as: genres of
writing, plotters vs pantsers, info dumps, importance of dialogue & description,
writing habits, many more. Such groups often include discussion on what members
are reading and their reactions.
Strong at: socializing
opportunities, philosophy and theory of storytelling, emotional support, spontaneous
discussion of writing issues.
Weaker at: One on one feedback,
actual practice at writing, fewer networking opportunities.
Dangers of: Same as Support
groups with too much social, not enough writing. Themes may begin to repeat
after a while.
c.
Critique Groups: (The kind I prefer). Members read each other’s writing and
make critical comments, both on what works and what doesn’t. Can catch anything
from grammar and punctuation errors, to clichéd writing, to plot holes, etc.
Strong at: One on one feedback, nuts
and bolts of writing, actual practice at writing, motivation to write, getting
your words in front of actual readers.
Weaker at: relatively fewer
socialization & networking opportunities, less of the big picture, less
spontaneous discussion of writing issues.
Dangers of: Hurt feelings.
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